We all have … fears.
In fact … all sorts of fears.
And …. sometimes we are dominated by them.
Some of us … even under total domination of those illusory emotions.
But … the main question is how the hell we get rid of such problems?!
Also … what is the real impact on our lives … especially on long term relationships?!
How we could heal our souls of those fears … which many, many times simple ruin the connection with our partners?!
Well … many times … our thoughts, perceptions about negative things which are happening … or might happen sooner or later … are just illusions.
I would even say … hallucinations.
But … we can’t stop ourselves … doing that.
No ….
We just … can’t …
Unfortunately … the inner fears are more powerful than anything.
Today i believe that many times … because we don’t really know to speak with our life partners … the non-ending fears … just ruin all.
We can’t communicate.
We can’t say it … directly … “I am afraid of that … and i really need you to help me to get rid of those ugly thoughts from my mind.”
Cause … you see … we are not opened enough.
And … we can’t open …. for real.
We might say … “I am afraid you like X … and i am losing my minds … continuing thinking of that.”
Or … “I am afraid of not being a good enough sexual partner … and i am afraid that one day … you will cheat on me because of that.
I need your support … and try to heal me … awakening the sexual energies from inside of my soul.”
In fact … we have millions of fears.
And … nobody wants to help us to get rid of them.
Yes … not even our life partners.
So … we live lives … dominates by all sorts of hallucinations.
Then … we wonder … why the hell we are so unhappy … even into the company of great people?
We don’t understand it … or can’t accept that we live multiple parallel scenarios for the same relationship … becoming so, so confused that … all ends up … in fear.
And those negative thoughts become stronger and stronger and … stronger … till we realise that we totally lost our minds.
Well … maybe some go to a psychiatrist or a psychologist …
few have the full support of the partner … but many of us … simple wake up in darkness.
Damn it …. It is just horrible …
But … we don’t really know that we can disconnect from illusory thoughts … simple smiling.
Even … laughing…
Yes … laughing of how silly we are.
So … we continue living miserable scenarios … even if reality is beautiful.
Unfortunately … yes … we just can’t realise what is really going on.
But …. life continues anyway.
Some of us … heal … and others become more and more damaged … mentally….
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